11 Wishes

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For many, 2020 will go down as the year of revelation. It’s been very eye-opening for me, especially these last few days. Life isn’t promised. ⁣


Jessica, your passing has opened my eyes to so much these past few days and has hit me harder than I would've ever been able to imagine. The good truly do die young.

@itsatravelod got me thinking that when people pass we really don’t even know their wishes, so I want to make mine clear: ⁣

❤️ Cry because that part is a part of the healing, but laugh and go through the amazing memories we shared. I would want you to laugh. ⁣

❤️At my funeral, it shouldn’t be 100% sad, it is a celebration of all the contributions I’ve made. Have a party after it and celebrate my life. Dance, read my blog posts, the books I will write, play my travel vlogs, etc.

❤️I want scholarships to be created with any extra donated money left over from my service/my estate. Scholarships for studying abroad, traveling, and first-generation college students (undergrad and grad). ⁣

❤️ Try not to comment R.I.P under any of the pictures I’ve ever posted on social media. I just never liked that. Allow my pages to serve as an inspiration and a piece of me you can always go back to. ⁣

❤️Keep my blog alive. I usually pay for it yearly so make sure it’s paid for and that “Being Christina Jane“ is always live. ⁣

❤️My best friend has my journals and you can ask her for any parts about you. I write about everything. Good & bad, so when you come across a “not so good” part about you don’t take it personally. It’s how I felt at the moment. Focus more on the good. ⁣

❤️I don’t need an extravagant funeral. Keep it simple, but the service needs to be beautiful with singing (I love gospel music), dancing, & reading of my works, remember it’s a celebration. ⁣I have always been a baddie on a budget, so do not correlate beautiful with expensive. The person who knows me the best: MY BESTFRIEND, Jenny Fleuristal, should make a majority of the decisions if not all. My family (immediate and extended) barely know me besides my little sister. That’s the truth. So my best friend and little sister can make choices.

I don't believe my parents should have a say in the details of my funeral, we barely communicate. They sadly, wouldn't know what I want.


❤️ Jenny let my parents read everything about them I wrote in my journals. Copies only, you need to always keep the originals until you can't anymore then give them to Jasmine, and when she can no longer keep them (because of mental, emotional, or physical strain) bury them/burn them.

❤️If we aren’t talking now or aren’t friends anymore, but at some point we did and we were close please come to my funeral and don’t feel like you’re being “fake” by sharing the memories we shared. At one point you were a part of my daily life, we just fell out it happens. No hard feelings. ⁣


❤️ I have a " Five Wishes Advance Directive" packet that is filled out and signed. I keep it in my car. It’s usually in the back pocket of one of my car seats.


❤️ If I were to pass tomorrow do not take what I am saying in this post lightly. I will update it regularly as changes in my life are made and relationships form and perish. These are my wishes.


🌻⁣ Last updated: 10/31/2020


💡Reminder: This isn’t meant to be a sad post, so don’t think of it as one. I don’t like it, but it’s life.



With the utmost love,


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